=================== #Modern_Marriage_partnershipAgreementBased on "Tony" a man that married @ 19 withhis schoolmate of 6 yrs , divorced 4 yrs later ,remarried with another neighbour girl that knewsince they were 10 y/o & divorced before he got 30 .He wowed to never marry again or get into anotherrelationship,until he met another divorcee & fewmonths later she suggested that they write allthe things they liked & the ones they didn t .They swapped the lists & few days later when theymet again agreed on some differences & discussedwith a lawyer if these notes could be used as alegal contract & 20 yrs later they re still togetherFew people that knew the couple asked about thecontract so they created a copy for them to use .over 300 people now have used this agreement .Write a plan for next 5 -15 yrs:Kids , babysitting , schools , [both parentsstay local until kids grow-up , no intl reloc.till the kids grow -up .]Share common costs , keep profits/wages separatedSome decisions can be for each individual nottogether [buy a car with own money , etc]Any other decisions & concerns written on agreementfor each situation & couple .Discuss with a local lawyer to see what can beincluded on the agreement & variations ifcircumstances change .----------------